Foster carers retire after 30 years and 45 kids

A couple are retiring from foster caring after 30 years, during which time they have helped offer a home to 45 children.

Jacqui and Malcolm, from Gateshead, decided to try fostering after their own children grew up and left home, and have since provided short and long-term care to children who needed a home.

Jacqui was inspired to look into signing up while working at Gateshead Central Library, where foster carers regularly held coffee mornings.

She said each child they cared for had a "different story", and revealed: "The most rewarding thing is seeing the children gain our trust, overcome challenges, build confidence and bloom - each in their own way."

Malcolm said they had dealt with "a lot of challenging moments over the years, but used our own parenting skills and new skills we developed along the way to help deal with any challenges".

He said: "It is always important to listen and show empathy, but also have lots of humour in the household."

Jacqui said of their charges: "When they first come into foster care, they are often apprehensive and find it difficult to trust adults."

"It is great when the children grow up but still keep in touch to let you know how they are doing."

Despite retiring, they will continue to support 19-year-old Jack who has lived with the couple since he was four and is currently studying at university.

He said they "immediately treated me as if I was one of their own".

"I've had my struggles but they've always been there for me, offering support and guidance," he said.

"They've helped shape me into the person I am today and have helped prepare me for the future."

He said he "wouldn't have changed a single thing".

"Living with them has taught me that you don't need to be blood-related to be family."

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